Friday, April 30, 2010

Again, For The Millonth Time

I appreciate the replies I've gotten through email about my little one, thank you. I just have one thing to add. I have posted what I'm about to say on Facebook as well. I've tried to say it nicely for 3 MONTHS now but apparently the point isn't getting across LoL. If I get one more person telling me I NEED to have a boy or I'll be sorry with 3 girls, ect... I'M GOING TO LOSE IT, seriously LoL. What is it with people and HAVING to have the opposite of what you already have. The last time I checked, you have babies to have CHILDREN, regardless of gender. Besides, it's always 50/50 so if you'd be that upset about getting the same gender you already have then I'd suggest maybe not trying for a baby LoL. I would ADORE a 3rd girl. I keep getting comments saying "wait until you have 3 teen girls, you'll be sorry" or "boys are easier, girls whine a lot". Do you have any IDEA how LONG I prayed for girls?? I am bringing these girls up way differently than most girls are in the world today (people in my family will get this comment) so I'm not scared for the teen years. God has a plan for my girls and I will be there, good or bad, every step of the way. Please don't feel sorry for me or for Andy. That's another one.. "Andy will be upset if it's a girl won't he?" NO HE WON'T! He loves his daughters more than life. Would he like a boy? Sure! I can assure you he won't feel like the world has ended if it's another girl. Ok, sorry to freak out, I blame it on my hormones hehe :p, but seriously, please stop. It aggravates the poo out of Andy and I LoL :)

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

aww Lisa I'm so sorry. I was one of "those" people...I didn't mean to say that you shouldn't hope for a girl, of course you should! I was just trying to make a joke, I know you're a great mother and will do wonderful with whichever gender God blesses you with! xo